
Response #1:
“What do you mean by ‘loving?’ A loving God must also be just, or His love is little more than an empty expression. If everyone was offered the same experience in the afterlife, how loving (or fair) would it be for Mother Teresa and Hitler to receive the same reward? Most of us can think of someone who should be punished: serial killers, child molesters, rapists. I bet you can also think of someone worthy of punishment, right? How loving would God be to reward these criminals rather than punish them? How fair would that be to their victims? Can a loving God be completely unjust and still considered loving?”
How loving would God be to reward criminals rather than punish them? How fair would that be to their victims? Can a loving God be completely unjust and still considered loving? Share on X
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Response #2:
“What do you mean by ‘send’? Our eternal destination is predicated by our choice, not His. God wants us to join Him in heaven, but He won’t force people into his presence who don’t want to be there. Some people hate God; others ignore Him entirely. They don’t choose to seek Him, and they don’t want to spend eternity with Him. God honors those kinds of choices. People who neither seek nor want God in their lives won’t be forced to spend eternity with Him. How much more loving could God be? Don’t you want Him to honor the choices of those who deny Him?”
People who neither seek nor want God in their lives won’t be forced to spend eternity with Him. How much more loving could God be? Share on X
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Response #3:
“What do you mean by ‘hell’? Most of us hold a notion of hell that is shaped more by tradition and culture than by the scriptures. For example, the Bible never describes hell as a place where people experience torture. Instead, it’s described as a place where people will be tormented. You can be tormented, for example, by simply making a bad choice (like choosing to deny God’s offer of heaven). The Bible describes levels and degrees of punishment. Some will be punished severely, some will only experience the torment and regret of being separated from God and believing family members for eternity. Have your notions of hell be shaped by popular fiction rather than the scriptures?”
The Bible describes levels and degrees of punishment. Some will be punished severely, some will only experience the torment and regret of being separated from God and believing family members for eternity. Share on X

J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured Cold-Case Detective, Senior Fellow at the Colson Center for Christian Worldview, Adj. Professor of Christian Apologetics at Talbot School of Theology, Biola University, author of Cold-Case Christianity, God’s Crime Scene, and Forensic Faith, and creator of the Case Makers Academy for kids.
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Kevin Fraser
February 24, 2021 at 11:17 am
This is a very good article. I haven’t read any of the others yet but if they are all as good as this one I will be pleased and blessed. Most people when they ask this question don’t want a half hour theological debate if they want an answer at all. Having something this short and to the point is exactly what is needed in cases like that.
Thank you for the effort put into having something like this available.
Mar
April 15, 2023 at 6:22 am
So good! Help me understand how being “fair” is being loving. In the biblical definiton of love in Corinthians fair nor just are listed. Also I often tell my kids that I don’t “do” fair.